Exit Interviews: Pointless Chore or Hidden Goldmine?

Let’s be honest, exit interviews don’t always get the attention they deserve.

They’re often squeezed into a rushed final day, handed off to HR with a generic form, or quietly skipped altogether. And when you’ve already got a long to-do list, it’s tempting to file them under “nice to have” rather than “must do”.

But here’s the thing: done properly, exit interviews are one of the most underrated tools in your HR kit. They can uncover patterns, highlight blind spots, and even help stop the revolving door of employee turnover. So before you dismiss them as a box-ticking exercise, let’s take a look at why they might just be your secret weapon.

1. They give you the ‘real’ reasons people leave

Most people won’t tell you everything while they’re still working for you. Whether it’s fear of rocking the boat or just wanting to keep the peace, it’s common for employees to hold back.

But once they’ve handed in their notice and are on their way out? That’s when the truth tends to come out, kindly, hopefully, but honestly.

An exit interview gives people space to share things they may not have felt comfortable saying before: frustrations with their manager, a toxic team culture, unrealistic workloads, or promises that were never followed through. This sort of insight is gold dust for spotting recurring problems that could be pushing others to consider the door too.

2. They help you fix what’s broken

Spotting the patterns is one thing. Acting on them is where the real value lies.

If you notice that three people in the last year have left the same department citing stress, poor communication or lack of progression, it’s not just bad luck. Something’s going on and the sooner you look into it, the better.

Exit interviews give you real-world feedback to improve policies, training, management practices, and employee experience. In short, they help you stop the next resignation before it happens.

3. They’re a chance to leave things on good terms

An exit interview isn’t just about what you learn it’s also about how you make people feel on their way out.

Done with warmth and genuine interest, it gives your employee the chance to feel heard and appreciated, even as they’re leaving. It sends a message that you value their contribution and their honesty, not just their time.

And let’s face it, in today’s world, how someone leaves your business matters. Former employees can become future clients, referrers, or even return as ‘boomerang hires’. Ending on a positive note keeps the door open.

4. They show the team that you care (and that you’re paying attention)

When your remaining employees see that you care about understanding why someone has left and that you’re willing to do something about it it builds trust.

It signals that you’re not just going to shrug and replace someone without asking questions. It shows you’re listening, you’re learning, and you’re willing to improve the experience for everyone else.

That kind of culture makes a difference. It says: “We don’t just want people here. We want people to want to be here.”

5. They strengthen your employer brand

In the age of Glassdoor reviews and LinkedIn whispers, your reputation as an employer travels fast.

Gathering feedback from exit interviews can help you spot the gaps between how you think your workplace is seen and how it actually feels on the inside.

By listening to your leavers and making meaningful changes based on what you hear, you build a reputation for fairness, transparency and growth. And that’s exactly the sort of thing that future talent is looking for.

So, are they worth it?

If you’re asking me then yes, absolutely. Exit interviews shouldn’t be a rushed form-filling exercise. They should be a thoughtful, friendly conversation that gives people space to reflect and be honest.

Handled with care and followed up properly, they’ll help you grow a better workplace from the inside out.

Top tip: Don’t just let HR handle it. Sometimes it’s better for a neutral person outside the line management chain to have the conversation, someone who can make it feel relaxed and confidential, not confrontational or awkward.

And whatever you do listen, document, and act. Because if you do, that once-dismissed “chore” might just become the key to keeping your best people, and building the kind of workplace people don’t want to leave.

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